Fear of growing old alone!
- Thread starter Gab19
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Of course, like everyone.
But if you want to stay alone or not is generally up to you, if you live in an occidental country.
What are your standarts for a boyfriend? Are they high?
Do you fear of meeting new peoples? With Grindr and the likes of it, it is fairly easy.
Are you stable? Do you work, take care if yourself?
All these points are really important points if you want to find a partner.
But if you want to stay alone or not is generally up to you, if you live in an occidental country.
What are your standarts for a boyfriend? Are they high?
Do you fear of meeting new peoples? With Grindr and the likes of it, it is fairly easy.
Are you stable? Do you work, take care if yourself?
All these points are really important points if you want to find a partner.
I think everyone fears that. However, gay men (or anyone who is not trapped in society’s customary roles of the biological family) do have the opportunity to create an “intentional family” of friends, ex-lovers, lovers, and other people in the community. The gay men I know who are older have a large contingent of people in their lives to care for them and support them so that even if their partners die or don’t have a partner, they still have a living and functional family.
