Are you Top, bottom, or versatile?
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If I’m being honest, I prefer being a bottom, but that’s just personal preference. I can very enthusiastically be a top if I want to. I’d put it at a 70–30 bottom-top ratio. I don’t really have any kind of dysphoria towards it, it can be extremely fun being a top. The main reason I don’t do it more is 1) its damn fun being told what to do and 2) up until recently I didn’t have a consistent partner who wanted me to top. Now that I do, I’m having a lot of fun with topping.
Purely bottom, but I’m offhandedly “dominant” under the guise of the submissive role. I get off on how much indirect control I have at the bottom.
I’d never penetrated someone because it’d make me dysphoric, even if I were to get a vaginoplasty I wouldn’t want to wear a strap-on or penetrate someone. I think that applies to most trans women, I’ve never met a trans woman outside of one’s you see in pornography who was open to topping, but I’m certain they exist in everyday life (5% of us maybe?) because some trans women don’t experience strong genital dysphoria. But it sucks that the stereotype that we’re all tops is so popular, it makes me feel defeminized when I think about it.
I'm definitely a bottom. I have topped to please my ex's but I always hated it. It made me feel so dysphoric and it's definitely not a turn on at all for me. I just closed my eyes and imagined anything else. I never enjoyed it really but I was closeted and scared to talk about it.
Being a bottom, however, I've always enjoyed it. It feels right and good. Thank fuck I can't get erections cause I'm on hormones.
I like to be both and I enjoy bottoming, but I like to top because it makes me feel dominant and it's really sexy when a guy likes to bottom.
