Interested in You!

[Diana30]

Signs That a Lesbian Woman Is Interested in You?

 

[Caitie]

One of the things a woman might do when she likes you is constantly laughing at your jokes. If she does so (especially if you believe they're not very funny), it's possible that she is interested in you. It could be another sign if she's more forward and finds ways to touch you physically. Examples of physical touch include handling your hand when asking to see your ring, sitting close to you on the couch, and giving your shoulder a squeeze when you pass by her.

Of course, if you find that she's constantly complimenting you, she's probably flirting with you. Flirting includes compliments like saying you have pretty eyes or a friendly smile. If she says nice things about material items like your shirt or shoes, she may just be friendly. Consider if she's acting a certain way toward only you or if she is generally a touchy and flirty person.
Additional signs that she might like you:

• She constantly talks about her queer experience, what your experience was like, and what it's like to come out, and otherwise brings up the topic of gender frequently.
• Observing that she's very socially or physically awkward when she's around you. She might be nervous or shy.
• Remembering the tiny things you said. If she brings up little details you've told her in the past, this could be a sign that she's going out of her way to get to know you.
• You are initiating physical touch, especially in more intimate areas. This includes affectionate and romantic gestures, like helping you put on your necklace, fixing your hair, and trying to hold or cuddle you.

 

[jenn]

There are many, like:

• She looks at you or steals glances at you. You might see her looking at you from a distance. If she's shy, she might look down when she sees you've caught her looking.
• She can't help but smile whenever she talks to you or when you're talking to her. It will be a genuine smile, not a fake one.
• She laughs at things you say, even when they're not very funny.
• She might blush around you or even avoid eye contact sometimes (because she's nervous).
• She will compliment you every so often. For example, "you look nice today" or "I like your bag - where did you get it?"

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• She might play with her hair, fix it, or adjust her clothing around you. She wants to look her best for you.
• When the two of you make eye contact, she might try to hold it for a little longer than is typical.
• She will make little mistakes or have 'mental blanks' when she's around you. She might suddenly become forgetful. A classic example is dropping something or forgetting the answer to a straightforward question you've asked. This is because when you're around, she can't think straight!
• If she's more of the shy type, you might notice her voice becomes quieter or not as clear when she's around you. This is because she's nervous.
• If she's timid, she might go completely silent in your presence. She might not talk to you because she is nervous and likes you. She can usually speak and joke around when she's with other people.
• She might 'like' your posts on Facebook or Instagram.