Is my BF is bisexual?

[Komugi]

How can I know if my BF is bisexual?

 

[tiana]

If he is and he is not ready to come out yet asking him would only increase his already heightened anxiety. Your best bet is to be supportive and talk about LGBTQ issues in a positive way. In short, be an ally.

When you are ready have a frank conversation with him about the importance of honesty and not hurting the ones that love him. On the odd chance that he isn't gay, you don't want him to feel hurt that you thought he was gay so be tactful and use discretion. This is all assuming he actually is gay and just hasn't come out to you yet.

Best wishes!

 

[iammeg]

You could just ask. But the more important question is where does this suspicion come from, then what is happening in your relationship that would prevent your boyfriend from the feeling that he can come out about such a basic part of his sexuality?

 

[mochimash]

You ask, and if he says no, you believe him because he never actually has to tell you, and you get your insecurities checked because it's unhealthy to spend your time in a relationship thinking people are secretly something or other.