A woman in her 30s has piqued my interest. Only in the grocery store do I see her; she is my neighbor on my block and we chat for a while. Our conversation consists primarily of a discussion of current events, and neither of us has revealed anything about our personal lives. When I see her, I feel like I'm going to burst; my heart beats, and all I want to say is that I'm completely smitten with her. But I'm afraid she'll be insulted and I'll lose her forever. As a result, she appears to be quite well-mannered and well-intentioned. Even my sexuality isn't clear to her, so I'd like to tell her that I think about her every day and wonder what it would be like to be with her. I'm starting to worry that I'm becoming a little too obsessive! Despite the fact that I'm not, these sensations are so overwhelming. How am I supposed to proceed?!