I'm 39 and married...I've had a stronger than normal desire to be with another lady for at least the past year. I have sexual admiration for other women, and if I'm honest with myself, I've always been attracted to women, it's just been in secret. When I'm alone and masturbating, I exclusively watch lesbian porn. I just (within the last 6 months) told my spouse about my wants and attraction to women, which he finds attractive. He has recently developed an interest in some elements of male/male sex. The desire to explore with a woman is increasing, and I'm not sure what this means or what I should do about it. I realize that when women become older, they get more inquisitive...that is exactly me!!! Any ideas or suggestions?