What turns you on?
- Thread starter jenn
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What turns me on:
- Feminine girls (Especially when they wear short dresses or short shirts)
- Thighs (something about when they cross their legs while wearing a short dress or skirt)
- A breathy voice (Perfect example is Lana Del Rey. If you haven’t heard her talk, I suggest you do)
- I sort of find it a turn-on if they look mean but they’re actually nice.
- Sexually dominant (Something about a feminine girl with a sort of “I’m superior” attitude is mesmerizing to me)
- Cleavage (Leaves mystery, but sort of reveals a bit)
- lingerie
- Grinding/humping
- When she runs her hand up your arm or touches your thigh
I’m more of a personality person. I think it’s more attractive than anything. Therefore…
I’ve probably bored ya’ll with fluffy stuff, but I’m a virgin and a teenager. I wanna wait before I lose anything until I’m like, old, or if I’ve found the right person. Buuuuut, I do have a couple of things I tend to find myself gushing and drooling over when I look at a select few people.
- Confidence: Any kind, even if the person normally isn’t all that confident. Honestly? Do something badass and I think it’s the hottest thing ever.
- Decent sense of humor: Or not, I’d think it’d be adorable if she didn’t understand jokes.
- A nice smile/laugh: God, I love smiles.
- Trust: I mean, obviously. I just wanna be trusted. I wanna be able to let you take your walls down and just let me listen to you. (Of course, I’m probably gonna hug you and kiss you forever, I’m a very cuddly person).
- Intelligence: You gotta love a smart girl and one with a kickass attitude too? Damn.
- Diversity: I myself am African American. I do prefer other diverse people, but hey, you never know.
I’ve probably bored ya’ll with fluffy stuff, but I’m a virgin and a teenager. I wanna wait before I lose anything until I’m like, old, or if I’ve found the right person. Buuuuut, I do have a couple of things I tend to find myself gushing and drooling over when I look at a select few people.
- Lips: I love lips, those soft pink ones? Those chapstick-covered ones? Those little plump ones? You name it. (God, and I love when they rub their lips together or bite them or like, anything with them. I literally just die).
- Boobs: I mean, duh.
- Butt/Curves: I always catch myself looking down (Once I got elbowed in the eyes by my friend whilst I was looking at another friend’s ass).
- Cuddling: Well, it doesn’t really turn me on, but it’s nice. I like being held
- I like lipstick lesbians, to put it simply if I wanted to date a guy I would (I'm bisexual). I do not mind a girl who curses, smokes, or drinks (I do it myself) but a girl who looks like a dude is a huge turn-off for me.
- I love to pamper my partner; treating them on dates and buying silly gifts for no reason but I want the same in return. A relationship involves two so I expect the other person to pull their own weight.
- “Roles” in the relationship: No power struggle. I do not believe in “dominant” and “submissive”, I want “equality”. I will let you lead the dance today but tomorrow is my turn.
- Sex: I like creativity in the bedroom; I like all types of toys and I’m willing to try anything at least once (except pain and humiliating practices, that's out of the question).
- Career-driven: Some people want to stay home with the kids and that’s completely fine but I expect my other half to have a money-earning job.
- Funny: I like people who make me laugh, I can't tell a decent joke to save my life.
- Someone who likes to read, I’m a huge book nerd. (Side note: If you take me on a date to a bookstore, and you at least pretend to enjoy yourself as much as I do, it guarantees I will put out)
- Spontaneity: I love people who can say fuck it, let's do this. I thrive in routine, structure, and painstakingly planned activities so I really enjoy it when my partner surprises me.
